Friday, May 28, 2010
1st and foremost, remember those who fought and died for your freedoms!
As you go into the memorial day weekend, some of you will not have, or even see your children because of parental alienation. My heart goes out to you fathers and mothers/stepmothers who have suffered this Evil. Stay united with and become stronger in your relationship with your husband or wife. Become stronger in your faith and the knowledge that all things are for a reason, I reason that is hidden from you right now. Take strength in the fact that you could not change the situation, no matter what you did, no matter your choices or your second guesses…you are in a situation that was meant to be. Become stronger for it. Let go of your anger and disappointment and treat this issue as a 3rd person. Do not let the pain grow in you or cause you stress. Stress destroys your health and will kill you as sure as your ex pointing a gun and pulling the trigger. Do not take a bullet. You and only you can save yourself and your future!
Your evil ex will have to live with the fact that they destroyed their own children’s future. Altered their childhood for the worse and changed the future of the grandkids. It is a fact that children need to be raised in a intact and stable home. It is written that children need a father figure, one of authority that is capable of discernment and discipline. This knowledge is very hard for the target of the evil of parental alienation. You must understand this, understand your pain…but let it go! Step back and confront this issue without emotion. Present the facts and hope for the best, this is all you can do.
Have a great weekend and to (Rindas 2 Mom), comment on my post of March 29th, Jealousy, the root of all Evil You have a blessed weekend and enjoy, you did good!
"It should be your care, therefore, and mine, to elevate the minds of our children and exalt their courage; to accelerate and animate their industry and activity; to excite in them an habitual contempt of meanness, abhorrence of injustice and inhumanity, and an ambition to excel in every capacity, faculty, and virtue. If we suffer their minds to grovel and creep in infancy, they will grovel all their lives." --John Adams, Dissertation on the Canon and Feudal Law, 1756