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Friday, May 24, 2013

5-24-13 Will he grow up despite us all?

Well, let’s check in and see what the result of changing the custodial parent from the father to the mother has had on young Colton. This is the same child who commissioner Swanhart said was such a well mannered and polite young man after she interviewed him in her chambers a couple of years ago.  It was after that meeting where Swanhart was told things that could not have happened they way they were described and yet she never used any common sense when evaluating the statements. I was never allowed to question the statements or give any explanation of the facts. Swanhart stole my sons without giving me the legal opportunity to fight for them..  

3 written statements against me were presented. My ex wife Linda lied on here sworn statement, so did her girl friend (Lis) on the false statement she made. The other statement Linda was able to extort was from her sons then girl friend. This statement was also false and she apologized for making such a statement but said she was under a lot of pressure and stress because she was living with Linda at the time. 3 statements (lies) is all she had…In 2 days I had 17 upstanding citizens write statements not attacking my ex-wife like a grade school sandbox fight, but simple stated facts and supported me as a father. Police officers, CASA Gal, church members, school board members, teachers, school principle, (Who Linda complained to the school board about and demanded that he be disciplined for writing me a letter of support) my oldest son and many others wrote statements of support for me. Lies from Cottonhead and resentful predisposition of Swanhart towards a clean cut man in a cowboy hat with a beautiful wife by his side, led to an appalling ruling that wrecked a family and forever altered young man’s life.  

When Swanhart stole my sons future (with Linda Clark and Blain Connaughton), he had a 3.57 gpa. He was not in trouble in school and in fact was liked by the teachers, staff and students. He was happy and not into gangster crap or drugs. We know from FB posts that his mother is aware of the pot smoking but does not stop it. Neither does she have any positive influence over his school grades, attendance or participation, seems that allowing him to have sleep over’s with his girl friend was not a good parenting choice either. Linda was never concerned about the boys welfare or future, they were turned lose at her house. As long as they didn’t interfere with her dating and nightlife, she didn’t care where they went or what they did.

 Thanks Swanhart, you gave the boys to the one person that was described by the court appointed investigator as “showing more interest in her own financial situation than in the welfare of the boys.” And then the Clinical physiologist who after meeting with Linda and two of the boys stated, “this is the worst case of parental alienation I have ever seen in my 26 years of practice, over the top bad!”

He is now 16 years old, the last report available on 5-12-13 shows him failing 4 of his 6 classes, 1-C and 1-D+. He also has 26 unexcused, 28 excused absentness and 36 tardys.
He became a father in May and was 15 years old when he and his girl friend became pregnant. Now, the girl friend that was living with him and his mother (Linda) has returned home to her parents house, I am told. Colton says he is going to be a good Dad but his son is born out of wedlock. His son, his baby does not live with him. His son has no family right now. His Son has no one to support him. His father Colton cannot. Colton is not responsible enough to get himself to school. He has no respect for the school or faculty and that attitude comes from his mother and her lack of respect. She thinks that everyone owes her something and has passed that on to Colton. Colton is not taking care of his son, you are, the tax payer is, the government welfare and food stamp program are taking care of them all. The mother that was in school, the 16 year old father and now the baby, all are being taken care of by the tax payer as a result of their underage sex. Not the best way to start out a life and future.  

Well, it’s not over for sure. The actions of the court, the lies that were told and the evidence that was ignored will forever hang on the heads of Colton, his baby and the mother of Colton’s baby.  

Swanharts ruling will continue to have negative consequences for this family and for you, a tax payer who now is forced to support and pay for the actions of irresponsible children and a mentally ill mother.

Colton, if you read this...let it be a wakeup call for you!   

No matter what has happened in your life, no matter what anger or resentment you hold… YOU have a CHOICE!

You don’t have to continue down this loser, gangbanger, doper, and give a crap about anyone or anything road. Pull your pants up. Unless your hero is some loser in prison that has an enlarged butt hole…pull your pants up and stop acting like a loser! Colton, you are smart, you can fix your school problems if you have the guts to do it! It’s easy for a loser to just smoke a joint and forget about working towards a future. Are you a loser Colton? Do your pants hang down like a punk that wants to advertise his ass for sale or rent? Do you disrespect the teachers at school? Do you think school is a joke and something you don’t need? If so, then you are a fool and I didn’t raise no fool! I know you hate everything about me, you have made that clear on your FB. FYI Colton, I did not try to get you kicked out of school, I’m trying to get you kicked into school! I can’t do anything about your attendance or the fact that your mother does not care about you or your future. Yes, I am pulling the plug and telling it like it is, your mother is a loser but you don’t have to be. You boys are old enough now to see the truth. Everyone else knows it already Colton, everyone knows about your mother. You should still love her because she is your mother but as a mother to you and your bothers, she was worse than a loser, she was evil in how she lied, stole your kids childhood and manipulated the system. You have been robbed of your childhood, you have been robbed of a fun and joy filled school experience but you can still turn it around. It’s all up to you! Can you cowboy up or are your pants down at your knees and your arms reaching for your ankles? Fun and games are over Colton, you have now impacted other lives. Your girl friend has had a baby at a very young age. What do you intend to do? Will you marry her? If not, why? If you care enough about the young lady to have a baby with her, perhaps you care enough to marry her and support them both? You can graduate school and raise a family at the same time but you will need to buckle down and get to work. Stop blaming others and start working HARD!
The next 12 months will tell the tell Colton, are you a dope smoking loser, failing school, with a knocked up girl friend and nothing positive to look forward to except paying child support. Yes Colton, the state will be looking to you to provide support. Or will you use this as a turning point? The point where Colton grows up and takes control of his life? You can you know, no matter how you have been brainwashed, you can succeed. I know you are strong, I know you are smart, I know you can pull your pants up and get to work!
Question is, what does Colton believe and how tough is he? Will you straighten up and get to work, or will you do as your mother does and blame someone else because you fail school? Will you blame me because you have 26 unexcused absences? How in the world can you expect to get passing grades and more important, learn something, if you don’t attend school? 4 fs, 1 C and 1 D+….Colton, that is disgraceful! You are not STUPIED! But your grades sure say something else. If you can’t do your work in school, your employer will identify those grades with laziness or stupidity. Why would they hire you? Would you hire you? Lets see…Hi, I smoke dope, don’t care much for authority and didn’t care enough to study for or attend my school classes…when do I start for you?  Colton, you better grow up now!
Your play days are over, you will work and support your baby or the state will be after you for a long time for child support. Yes CHILD SUPPORT! I pay over $400 a month in child support for you and what does that money get? Perhaps you got some smoke or did it go up your mothers nose? Where has all that money gone? You have a car,st 2 years after the divorce. She also sold the house I bought her, bought a larger one with a swimming pool and shortly afterwards, filled bankruptcy while she was working full time and I was paying her over $2,000 a month in tax free child support, Cars, booze, sex, drugs and nightlife are very expensive.  FYI Colton, your mother is not a good example of a responsible person so please don’t take her financial advice to heart. While I’m at it, doesn’t it seem funny that she never finished her school? Seems she didn’t need to learn anything either.
perhaps that was not money well spent but your mother loves cars. If I remember correctly, she bought and owned 11 cars and trucks in the 1

Up to you Colton, Cowboy up, or bend over for your prison boyfriend, choice is yours!

05/21/13
02:23 PM 
CLS 
HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL 
No 
CHAD SEELY 

Comments: Please assign 1 lunch detention for failure to make up detentions he has not served for me for swearing.
05/13/13
08:50 AM 
CLS 
HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL 
No 
CHAD SEELY 

Comments: I informed Colten that he no longer gets to leave class as he wanders around the school when he leaves. Colton started yelling and brought up what happened last week. I told him he was being rude and disrespectful and that that was the way it was, if he didn't like it, he could leave and complain. He continued yelling and using inappropriate language, and then became threatening, saying, "You better get out of my face!" At that point, I yelled at him telling him that he doesn't run the school and that I was tired of his crap and go to Seely's and not come back until we discuss this and settle it.
05/10/13
09:00 AM 
CLS 
HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL 
No 
CHAD SEELY 
1
Comments: Colton displayed disrespect, insubordination, disruptive behavior, and inappropriate language and conduct when given an assignment. On May 9th Colton and several other boys in 2nd period had behaved irresponsibly. As a consequence, today, May 10th the students who made the poor choices yesterday received an alternate assignment to complete at their desks instead of participating in an active assignment with the rest of the class. Colton was the only student to react inappropriately to this assignment. He cursed, and said he wasn't goning to do the assignment. I told him he could do the assignment, or go to Mr. Seely's office. Colton shouted at me using rude language, slammed his bag and his hands around into a chair, desks etc. making a lot of noise and disrupting the class. He shouted all the way to the open door, then stood on the porch of the portable shouting into the room. In part he shouted, "I don't need this sh--! I'm out of the room now! What you gonna do now, huh?! You can't do nothing! What you gonna do?! I'm out! I'm out! What you gonna do?! You can't do nothing!" I left the front of the room and started towards the door and he retreated down the ramp, still shouting. I called Mr. Seely to alert him to Colton's imminent arrival. I left a voicemail message for him, then called Mrs. Schultz and got voicemail there too but did not leave her a message. I called Mrs. Notman and asked her to send Colton to Mr. Seely's office if she saw him wandering the halls. I doubted Colton would actually go to Mr. Seely's office as I had directed him. As it turned out, he didn't. Mr. Seely later entered my classroom and said he hadn't seen Colton. I reported to him that the other students were working well on the alternative assignment. Only Colton had reacted inappropriately.
03/22/13
12:40 PM 
CLS 
HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL 
No 
CHAD SEELY 
1
Comments: Disruptive, argumentative, refusal to follow directions, believing he's above rules and requirements. Sent to Mr. Seely for the remainder of the period.
10/08/12
11:59 AM 
ALL 
HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL 
No 
CHAD SEELY 
1
Comments: Colton came to class with his food and pop from Freds. Colton asked to be able to eat his lunch. I told him to place it on the front desk and not touch it as the 2nd bell had rung. While everyone was preparing to take notes Colton said that he could have finished his lunch while everyone was getting ready. I told him that the school rules state that food is not allowed and that I could have thrown his food away instead of allowing him to set it aside til he leaves the class. Colton said that it "would not be a good career move" if I were to throw it away. Of course I then threw his food and drink away. Colton picked up his backpack and left the room, picking up his food and drink out of the trash can as he walked out the door
10/03/12
09:46 AM 
CLS 
HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL 
No 
CHAD SEELY 
1
Comments: Colton lied to the my sub telling her it was OK for him to eat his lunch in the classroom. I will take caare of his punishment.
Classes for: Trimester 3 (03/09/13-06/13/13)



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Come on Colton, get in the saddle and lets go for a ride!