Well, let’s check in and see what the result of changing the
custodial parent from the father to the mother has had on young Colton. This is
the same child who commissioner Swanhart said was such a well mannered and
polite young man after she interviewed him in her chambers a couple of years
ago. It was after that meeting where
Swanhart was told things that could not have happened they way they were described
and yet she never used any common sense when evaluating the statements. I was
never allowed to question the statements or give any explanation of the facts.
Swanhart stole my sons without giving me the legal opportunity to fight for them..
3 written statements against me were presented. My ex wife
Linda lied on here sworn statement, so did her girl friend (Lis) on the false
statement she made. The other statement Linda was able to extort was from her
sons then girl friend. This statement was also false and she apologized for
making such a statement but said she was under a lot of pressure and stress
because she was living with Linda at the time. 3 statements (lies) is all she
had…In 2 days I had 17 upstanding citizens write statements not attacking my ex-wife
like a grade school sandbox fight, but simple stated facts and supported me as
a father. Police officers, CASA Gal, church members, school board members, teachers,
school principle, (Who Linda complained to the school board about and demanded
that he be disciplined for writing me a letter of support) my oldest son and
many others wrote statements of support for me. Lies from Cottonhead and resentful
predisposition of Swanhart towards a clean cut man in a cowboy hat with a beautiful
wife by his side, led to an appalling ruling that wrecked a family and forever
altered young man’s life.
When Swanhart stole my sons future (with Linda Clark and Blain
Connaughton), he had a 3.57 gpa. He was not in trouble in school and in fact
was liked by the teachers, staff and students. He was happy and not into
gangster crap or drugs. We know from FB posts that his mother is aware of the
pot smoking but does not stop it. Neither does she have any positive influence over
his school grades, attendance or participation, seems that allowing him to have
sleep over’s with his girl friend was not a good parenting choice either. Linda
was never concerned about the boys welfare or future, they were turned lose at
her house. As long as they didn’t interfere with her dating and nightlife, she
didn’t care where they went or what they did.
Thanks Swanhart, you
gave the boys to the one person that was described by the court appointed
investigator as “showing more interest in her own financial situation than in
the welfare of the boys.” And then the Clinical physiologist who after meeting
with Linda and two of the boys stated, “this is the worst case of parental alienation
I have ever seen in my 26 years of practice, over the top bad!”
He is now 16 years old, the last report available on 5-12-13
shows him failing 4 of his 6 classes, 1-C and 1-D+. He also has 26 unexcused,
28 excused absentness and 36 tardys.
He became a father in May and was 15 years old when he and
his girl friend became pregnant. Now, the girl friend that was living with him
and his mother (Linda) has returned home to her parents house, I am told. Colton
says he is going to be a good Dad but his son is born out of wedlock. His son,
his baby does not live with him. His son has no family right now. His Son has
no one to support him. His father Colton cannot. Colton is not responsible enough
to get himself to school. He has no respect for the school or faculty and that attitude
comes from his mother and her lack of respect. She thinks that everyone owes
her something and has passed that on to Colton. Colton is not taking care of
his son, you are, the tax payer is, the government welfare and food stamp
program are taking care of them all. The mother that was in school, the 16 year
old father and now the baby, all are being taken care of by the tax payer as a
result of their underage sex. Not the best way to start out a life and future.
Well, it’s not over for sure. The actions of the court, the
lies that were told and the evidence that was ignored will forever hang on the
heads of Colton, his baby and the mother of Colton’s baby.
Swanharts ruling will continue to have negative consequences
for this family and for you, a tax payer who now is forced to support and pay
for the actions of irresponsible children and a mentally ill mother.
Colton, if you read this...let it be a wakeup call for you!
No matter what has happened in your life, no matter what anger
or resentment you hold… YOU have a CHOICE!
You don’t have to continue down this loser, gangbanger,
doper, and give a crap about anyone or anything road. Pull your pants up. Unless
your hero is some loser in prison that has an enlarged butt hole…pull your
pants up and stop acting like a loser! Colton, you are smart, you can fix your
school problems if you have the guts to do it! It’s easy for a loser to just smoke
a joint and forget about working towards a future. Are you a loser Colton? Do
your pants hang down like a punk that wants to advertise his ass for sale or
rent? Do you disrespect the teachers at school? Do you think school is a joke
and something you don’t need? If so, then you are a fool and I didn’t raise no
fool! I know you hate everything about me, you have made that clear on your FB.
FYI Colton, I did not try to get you kicked out of school, I’m trying to get
you kicked into school! I can’t do anything about your attendance or the fact
that your mother does not care about you or your future. Yes, I am pulling the
plug and telling it like it is, your mother is a loser but you don’t have to
be. You boys are old enough now to see the truth. Everyone else knows it
already Colton, everyone knows about your mother. You should still love her
because she is your mother but as a mother to you and your bothers, she was
worse than a loser, she was evil in how she lied, stole your kids childhood and manipulated the system.
You have been robbed of your childhood, you have been robbed of a fun and joy
filled school experience but you can still turn it around. It’s all up to you!
Can you cowboy up or are your pants down at your knees and your arms reaching
for your ankles? Fun and games are over Colton, you have now impacted other
lives. Your girl friend has had a baby at a very young age. What do you intend
to do? Will you marry her? If not, why? If you care enough about the young lady
to have a baby with her, perhaps you care enough to marry her and support them
both? You can graduate school and raise a family at the same time but you will
need to buckle down and get to work. Stop blaming others and start working
HARD!
The next 12 months will tell the tell Colton, are you a dope
smoking loser, failing school, with a knocked up girl friend and nothing
positive to look forward to except paying child support. Yes Colton, the state
will be looking to you to provide support. Or will you use this as a turning
point? The point where Colton grows up and takes control of his life? You can
you know, no matter how you have been brainwashed, you can succeed. I know you
are strong, I know you are smart, I know you can pull your pants up and get to
work!
Question is, what does Colton believe and how tough is he? Will
you straighten up and get to work, or will you do as your mother does and blame
someone else because you fail school? Will you blame me because you have 26 unexcused
absences? How in the world can you expect to get passing grades and more
important, learn something, if you don’t attend school? 4 fs, 1 C and 1 D+….Colton,
that is disgraceful! You are not STUPIED! But your grades sure say something
else. If you can’t do your work in school, your employer will identify those
grades with laziness or stupidity. Why would they hire you? Would you hire you?
Lets see…Hi, I smoke dope, don’t care much for authority and didn’t care enough
to study for or attend my school classes…when do I start for you? Colton, you better grow up now!
Your play days are over, you will work and support your
baby or the state will be after you for a long time for child support. Yes
CHILD SUPPORT! I pay over $400 a month in child support for you and what does
that money get? Perhaps you got some smoke or did it go up your mothers nose?
Where has all that money gone? You have a car,st 2 years after the divorce. She also
sold the house I bought her, bought a larger one with a swimming pool and
shortly afterwards, filled bankruptcy while she was working full time and I was
paying her over $2,000 a month in tax free child support, Cars, booze, sex,
drugs and nightlife are very expensive. FYI
Colton, your mother is not a good example of a responsible person so please don’t
take her financial advice to heart. While I’m at it, doesn’t it seem funny that
she never finished her school? Seems she didn’t need to learn anything either.
Up to you Colton, Cowboy up, or bend over for your prison boyfriend,
choice is yours!
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05/21/13
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02:23 PM
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HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL
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No
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CHAD SEELY
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Comments: Please
assign 1 lunch detention for failure to make up detentions he has not served
for me for swearing.
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05/13/13
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08:50 AM
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HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL
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No
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CHAD SEELY
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Comments: I
informed Colten that he no longer gets to leave class as he wanders around
the school when he leaves. Colton started yelling and brought up what
happened last week. I told him he was being rude and disrespectful and that
that was the way it was, if he didn't like it, he could leave and complain.
He continued yelling and using inappropriate language, and then became
threatening, saying, "You better get out of my face!" At that
point, I yelled at him telling him that he doesn't run the school and that I
was tired of his crap and go to Seely's and not come back until we discuss
this and settle it.
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05/10/13
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09:00 AM
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HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL
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No
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CHAD SEELY
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1
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Comments: Colton
displayed disrespect, insubordination, disruptive behavior, and inappropriate
language and conduct when given an assignment. On May 9th Colton and several
other boys in 2nd period had behaved irresponsibly. As a consequence, today,
May 10th the students who made the poor choices yesterday received an
alternate assignment to complete at their desks instead of participating in
an active assignment with the rest of the class. Colton was the only student
to react inappropriately to this assignment. He cursed, and said he wasn't
goning to do the assignment. I told him he could do the assignment, or go to
Mr. Seely's office. Colton shouted at me using rude language, slammed his bag
and his hands around into a chair, desks etc. making a lot of noise and
disrupting the class. He shouted all the way to the open door, then stood on
the porch of the portable shouting into the room. In part he shouted, "I
don't need this sh--! I'm out of the room now! What you gonna do now, huh?!
You can't do nothing! What you gonna do?! I'm out! I'm out! What you gonna
do?! You can't do nothing!" I left the front of the room and started
towards the door and he retreated down the ramp, still shouting. I called Mr.
Seely to alert him to Colton's imminent arrival. I left a voicemail message
for him, then called Mrs. Schultz and got voicemail there too but did not
leave her a message. I called Mrs. Notman and asked her to send Colton to Mr.
Seely's office if she saw him wandering the halls. I doubted Colton would
actually go to Mr. Seely's office as I had directed him. As it turned out, he
didn't. Mr. Seely later entered my classroom and said he hadn't seen Colton.
I reported to him that the other students were working well on the
alternative assignment. Only Colton had reacted inappropriately.
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03/22/13
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12:40 PM
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HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL
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No
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CHAD SEELY
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1
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Comments: Disruptive,
argumentative, refusal to follow directions, believing he's above rules and
requirements. Sent to Mr. Seely for the remainder of the period.
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10/08/12
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11:59 AM
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HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL
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No
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CHAD SEELY
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1
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Comments: Colton
came to class with his food and pop from Freds. Colton asked to be able to
eat his lunch. I told him to place it on the front desk and not touch it as
the 2nd bell had rung. While everyone was preparing to take notes Colton said
that he could have finished his lunch while everyone was getting ready. I
told him that the school rules state that food is not allowed and that I
could have thrown his food away instead of allowing him to set it aside til
he leaves the class. Colton said that it "would not be a good career
move" if I were to throw it away. Of course I then threw his food and
drink away. Colton picked up his backpack and left the room, picking up his
food and drink out of the trash can as he walked out the door
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10/03/12
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09:46 AM
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HIGHLAND HIGH SCHOOL
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No
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CHAD SEELY
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1
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Comments: Colton
lied to the my sub telling her it was OK for him to eat his lunch in the
classroom. I will take caare of his punishment.
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Class
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Description
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Term
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Teacher
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0
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JR ADVISORY
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S3
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1
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POETRY
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S3
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2
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TEACHER ASSISTANT
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S3
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3
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ALGEBRA 2C
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S3
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4
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CHEMISTRY C
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S3
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5
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ADVANCED WOODS
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S3
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6
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US HISTORY C
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S3
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Come on Colton, get in the saddle and lets go for a ride!
